When life stares you in the face and asks you why and how, don’t be confused just never stop believing in what you know and feel is right. What is right is to never stop believing in yourself. You may make a bad decision, but that doesn’t mean you should stop striving to believe in what you have learned through your life experiences. Be true and hold on to the knowing and feeling of believing in yourself.

Let’s use an example. One day someone you respect and love dearly told you how they felt about a specific situation, but it was different from what you felt and wasn’t correct within your thinking. But you also think highly of that person and you had learned a lot from that person. Does that mean you should give in to what he/she is saying and forget about what you think, because they have been correct in the past? No.

One should always consider another’s thought, but if you are sure in what you know and feel, you should always turn to your core belief, simply because this will be your daily consequence and the decision you will live with through your day to day awakening. So never stop believing in your self, but also keep an open mind. 

With eternal belief,

Deryo

When life stares you in the face and asks you why and how, don’t be confused just never stop believing in what you know and feel is right. What is right is to never stop believing in yourself. You may make a bad decision, but that doesn’t mean you should stop striving to believe in what you have learned through your life experiences. Be true and hold on to the knowing and feeling of believing in yourself.

Let’s use an example. One day someone you respect and love dearly told you how they felt about a specific situation, but it was different from what you felt and wasn’t correct within your thinking. But you also think highly of that person and you had learned a lot from that person. Does that mean you should give in to what he/she is saying and forget about what you think, because they have been correct in the past? No.

One should always consider another’s thought, but if you are sure in what you know and feel, you should always turn to your core belief, simply because this will be your daily consequence and the decision you will live with through your day to day awakening. So never stop believing in your self, but also keep an open mind. 

With eternal belief,

Deryo

Sure, ones journey in life starts at the time of conception, but the journey for and of substance in life starts when you began to understand and deal with the complicated challenges in life.

When you’re a baby and during your adolescence and teenage years, you are guided and helped with the understanding and execution aspect of life. But it isn’t until you think, live and are slapped upside the head by life, that you know you have arrived. The funny thing is when you’re young you can’t wait to get to this point and for some people once they do, they wish they could go back to an earlier time. For me I continue to open my arms to the challenges of life with an open heart, open eyes and open mind, ready to view the next big thing to come into my life. Because I know with positive thought and love in your heart, it will only improve with strength, knowledge and the available belief in the fact that if you try you can overcome whatever it is you are dealing with. It could be the meeting of someone that makes you happy and I mean this not in relationship but in an “met you today and might not ever see you again” type of experience.

But most of all I love what believing in yourself creates for you and that is, a continual supply of health everyday living, because it allows you to focus and get pass, over, through and around anything you may experience on your personal journey. Sure I’m explaining this in a simple manner, but no matter how hard anything can be, it’s just that simple when you believe in the realm of positive thinking.

On the journey,

Deryo

Waiting is one of the hardest things for me to do. I find it hard, because I’m the type of person who is ready to do whatever it is I need to do on time. I would rather be early for an appointment than be late, because lateness takes away your ability to be progressive. Waiting also creates the possibility of thoughtful misplacement of thinking. You begin to worry when there is no need, putting yourself in the mental position to make a wrong decision. You know like moving too fast on something that needs you to take your time.

So it is so important to be within the moment of what is best for you and what you’re doing.  Waiting can also be applied within a manner that is conducive to a game plan that calls for thinking slowly as you go or stop and look and take a minute. I’ve witnessed both aspects of this spectrum and I must tell you simply, waiting is hard for me.

Please be on time, because I hate waiting,

Deryo

Some people tend to doubt themselves around every turn, while others find a way to have an abundance of confidence. It’s definitely important to have confidence in yourself, but with being a human the everyday challenges you experience can bring doubt right to your face. But there are ways to conquer doubt and I’m going share three of them with you.

1. Don’t allow what people say or think they know about you, get you down.

2. Always know that making a mistake can be a learning process and it doesn’t have to be a problem. So take it, think about it, and then allow yourself to react in a corrective positive manner.

3. Last but not least, from the beginning of each day tell yourself that you are able and believe it, that way you will give yourself the upper hand, because if you don’t believe in yourself, you can’t allow others to believe in you.

When the morning comes and the burden is heavy

Take your time because I’m here

Lean on me and just believe

Because I’m always standing near

And it’s never too late to let go of the fear

The fear that lies in your heart is only there for you to remember

That it’s time to turn to love and hope

And let the fear go

So you can go where the love is strong

And your hope has no fear

Yes you can lean on me and trust

Trust in you and what you feel in your heart

Take your time

Cause this is the way to where I’ll be

And I will be Standing With You

Forever,

Deryo

If someone asked you the question, do you have everything you need, your first thought would probably be no. The reason for this is most people are on a continual search for more of whatever they need. Some would say it’s important to be of outer content, but really if you search your soul you would find there is an ever-lasting desire to consume more for growth.

By design I feel that any mind that is thinking has a trigger that gives them the drive to look for advancement in their day-to-day progression. The only situation that challenges this particular perception is, the direction and content of what you choose to allow for your mind and soul to receive.

For instance; you’re given a choice of getting a job where you would supervise people and give you what some say is power or you’re given a choice to receive a job that would allow you to work alongside others doing what you like doing most. The choice being, is what is it that determines power for you? True power is not what’s determined outwardly, because this is only a presumption that is individually assuming for your life’s prosperity. It is the thing that drives your inner being that gives you the power and not the situation that stands on the outside looking in.

So when you ask yourself, if you have everything you need, make sure within your answer there is a great factor of what it is that truly drives what you desire most and who you see yourself to be.

Still getting what I need,

Deryo

Being kind is something that exists in all of us, for many it just needs to be brought to the surface. I was thinking about how people go about relating in a kind manner, why, because this is something I think about everyday, goodness. Here are 10 different ways I’ve shared a kind thought with others and some other ways I’ve seen and experienced by other people.

1.     During the Christmas holiday, my daughter and myself where driving across the Bay Bridge to San Francisco and an idea popped into my mind. It was a random thought to pay the toll of the next car that came behind me through the tollgate. It was to be a thought of pure kindness without any strings attached, solely designed to share some love.

2.     While surfing the net I ran across one of the most positive websites on the Internet. It’s called named the RAK (Random Acts of Kindness) and it is full of totally positive thoughts and gestures. The website is dedicated to encouraging people to help others through random acts. I feel so good about it, I feel it is only right that share with you. Definitely check it out, http://www.rak.co.nz/

3.     One of my favorite acts of kindness is, when I walk by someone I’ve never met and I say hi and smile and give them a compliment and they kindly reciprocate with saying hi and a smile.

4.     Another is, one time I left my lights on in my commute car one night and my neighbor knocked on my door to let me know.

5.     For me and I’m sure many others, one of the top acts of kindness is when our country has a national emergency and despite our individual differences, we come together to overcome the problem.

6.     When I first move into my neighborhood, my four closest neighborhoods took time to not only welcome my family and I, but went out of their way in making sure we felt welcome.

7.     Each time I see an adult take time to help a young person in finding their way to stay on the right path.

8.     You get to a door at a department store first and you step back to allow the people directly behind you to go in first, as you hold the door.

9.     Coming off the freeway and you come to a stop light where there’s a person holding a sign saying “need food” and you have some fruit in a bag on the back floor and you reach back and give it to them along with a smile and a blessing.

10.A hot day and you come out of a ice cream parlor with an ice cream cone and you see some little kid staring at you, and you take them in to and buy them their own ice cream cone. The smile on their face is the act of kindness for me.

Showing kindness,

Deryo

When it comes to sharing your time with someone, you mostly do it with your family or a close friend and you find it mostly satisfying. But there is also another very important need to be filled that deals with giving and it doesn’t have to be a lot of time involved. What I’m talking about is mentoring, taking time to spend with another in order to help them develop, control or create a better way for them. It’s taking the time to do something of consequence or value. What most people who think about mentoring may not understand is, this is also a fulfilling situation for them also, just think: to give is to receive. As you share your time, you share your thinking, love and understanding. Helping to create the possibility of encouragement and development of another human being. Is there anything greater you can do with your spare or given time? Mentoring, it can be a life changing involvement.

Giving time,

Deryo

For must people we know who comes first and that obviously is the one who creates the prospective for you to be first. But no, I ask the question concerning all of us who put their faith in the positive energy, which then gives us the sight to see the truth. After that, I feel if you put first the person or situation that is deserving, you in return put yourself first. When you do the right choice by putting the truth and deserving first it automatically puts you first by design. So the question is asked again, who’s first? We all are by design, if the truth prevails.

Wanting you to be first,

Deryo

It’s made-up by many wonders, such as the simple abilities to be able to see, hear and breathe. But truly they are not simple at all, because they are apart of the beauty of the workings of the day-to-day working body of all that live. Often we take for granted the glory that has been bestowed upon us. But while we are on our journey through life we hopefully learn how to appreciate it. For this is one of the more important tasks we come upon on our journey through life.

But one of the biggest problems we experience is the knowledge of viewing life in its most simplistic manner. Sure things can be hard, but they are only as hard as you allow them to be, because in your life you have been given the power of control, the ability to create beauty and the flow of happy or sad. So take the control that is given and apply it to your everyday living, because it is part of the destiny within your life. Its called living life, your life, so don’t just let be, be it.

Loving life at every turn,

Deryo