There are many situations where one person takes advantage of another. Using misdirection to mislead someone, in order to connect on whatever it is the opposite person has. Some call it a set-up, but it is an art that some not so trustworthy people use to guide someone’s mind to a venue of fault, and then take advantage in one way or another.

But doing wrong is a virtue that brings negative self-energy. So let’s think twice before we use misdirection to deceive someone, so you can connect with him or her to negatively gain from him or her, what is there’s from the beginning. Take for example, you look at the political situation when one political party take information and use it in a round about way to make the other party look weak, confused and wrong in their thinking, but many times the truth is just the opposite. So it is a fact that this information I give you, should lead you to question what’s said to you, put in front of you to view, and do not take for granted what someone puts in front of you for sell.

Keeping an eye out,

Deryo

How do you know who your best friend is? Is it the person you spend the most time with? Or is the person you trust the most? Or is it the person you can be yourself around and never have to worry about being judged on your thoughts and faults?

For me my best friend is a person who doesn’t judge me and accepts me for who I naturally am. With that we can find it to be a blessing, because many times we find and see so many individuals passing judgment on the next person in our society.

If we as individuals would take heed to the thoughts and feelings of others we would and could find that special way of relating to the next person. Which is simply caring what that person is saying and feeling and create a bridge to connect it to your own thoughts and feelings. This could be a way to create a self-generated positive connectional base.

We could make it an everyday part of our life, you know that positive thing you do that would create or add to that positive road in your life that brings you happiness and contentment. Think about how it would or does feel to have a lot of people truly relating to you in that manner. When you do, let me know, because you will be a part of the luckiest group of people to have experienced that situation.

Hmm, associate, that is also a meaningful word, because many times that’s what you have to work with and let’s definitely give props to that level of friendship, because it may not be the experience of having a best friend, but it also can serve as a foundation to a true friendship. What I’m truly saying is, simply take a look at what you search for in your best friend and give an associate a chance and if you discover a true friend honor it, because it is something made from a blessing.

Lets be friends,

Deryo

In our journey in life we pick up various types of situations that tend to weigh heavy on our mind, heart and spirit. Many times we are not even aware of the luggage we carry. Without that knowledge we find ourselves misguided in our attempt to complete what we are working to achieve.

But in the space of our voyage we are afforded the knowledge in one way or another. In receiving the knowledge, we create an emotional attempt to develop a system of continual passage and I call it Letting Go.

The first advantage of this system is, if you let go of the things in your life that causes interference, you then create a space for the part of your life that is either in the present or awaits you in your very near future.

Letting go is a method that in many instances helps you to relieve the challenges that weigh you down, stand beside you or in front of you creating a static of confusion. So when you have that feeling or the situation that weighs heavy on your mind or spirit, step back or pause a moment and just let it go.

Letting go every day,

Deryo

When you think about yourself, others, life and time, basically you’re thinking about one thing in a variable vision. I say this because, when you think about yourself, it is in reference to everything around you. Which is truly the making of your individual self, so with that being a fact, why do people express themselves in a way that tries to convey a since of oneness? The only way that it truly could be, is if you where the one and only person in our universe. So when you think, do, feel or express yourself, you’re not alone, because regardless to how you see it, say it or believe in it. Always remember that, we are all in it together.

Thinking about the truth,

Deryo

If I meet you, have lunch with and spend the rest of the day with you, do I know you? You talk on the phone with someone for a month; did you really get a chance to know them? We went to high school together and I saw you everyday, do I really know you? What does it mean to know someone and what does it take to really get to know them? It takes time, time spent and shared, equal communication and a shared trust, to just begin to get to know someone. So now look around and ask yourself, whom do you really know?

I would say, I think you know me.

You know what I mean,

Deryo

Today I felt someone standing beside me. But when I looked over no one was there.

So I looked inside, deep in my heart.

I then knew that it was inward and not outward where it was to be found.

It was he and all of those who have loved me now and before.

Today, not only did I learn how to see and feel the love.

But today, I found it was inside of me.

So never look outward to find your way, because it’s always inside

each and every day.

Deryo

Yes Spring is here and it’s time to go forward with being positive, and goodness in your heart. I guess you can say the operative word in springtime, is the word time, because it is so important not to waste it. Wasting it is truly in the negative. We should always give in to being positive in every moment in which we live, react, express, view and stand. Everyone is and has the ability to be positive and have goodness in their life; it is only the act of non-execution of those values that may sometime derail us. Check this out: “hey Brenda, I think you’re wrong and won’t ever amount to anything” or “hey Brenda, I think you should think twice about your choices, because you have the ability and the chance to be positive and succeed in everything you do. To give is the pathway to receiving, so let’s spring forward with our time in a positive and giving way.

Springtime brings a BRAND NEW DAY,

Deryo

There’s fantasy

&

There’s reality

Fantasy is the one that may let you down.

I was having a conversation with my daughter the other day and she said those words. Right in that moment it triggered my mind and feelings. I began to think of the truth within the statement.

When you deal with things in a realistic manner, you can only get the truth in return. But within the confines of fantasy thinking, you know like: wishing and dreaming. You’re simply not facing what is truly in front of you, because you think you might be able to lift the 1200lb giant rock that fell in front of your goals. Believe me I’m not saying don’t stand and live your dreams, but I am saying don’t do it while your daydreaming. Be in the real.

Being real,

Deryo

Is it something that someone told you, or is it something you can only see for yourself? Well, definitely the things you see and experience for yourself can be and is your truth. But what about what someone tells you? Do you accept on faith, they don’t lie to you or do you only believe what you have learnt, from someone close to you?

I know this can be a great dilemma. There are situations that you can truly count on, such as your parents or yourself. But then again what really is the truth? For me the truth is when you can trust in what you see or hear and those things are of positive value in your life.  Whether it hurts or makes you happy, because truly it all comes down to what you perceive or believe. 

Just being truthful,

Deryo